
Journey 5 · Seeking God in Silence
Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque
A fire blazing from the pierced Heart
Feast day October 16
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Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque
A fire blazing from the pierced Heart
Map of a life
This life told in 5 chapters
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OpeningOpening1 min
Chapter 1 of 5A childhood in the pain of family abuse2 min
Chapter 2 of 5The door of the Visitation convent at Paray-le-Monial1 min
Chapter 3 of 5The great revelations of the Sacred Heart1 min
Chapter 4 of 5The arrival of a holy spiritual director1 min
Chapter 5 of 5A candle burning out in the flame of love1 min
Feast day
Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque
Some places may celebrate on a slightly different day.
October 16
Patron of
- Devotees of the Sacred Heart
- Those suffering from paralysis
Often depicted with
- The Sacred Heart of Jesus
- The Visitation habit
Opening
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In the second half of the seventeenth century, when the chill of the Jansenist heresy had spread a picture of God as harsh, distant and bent only on punishing, a young nun at the Visitation convent of Paray-le-Monial in France would often kneel for hours before the tabernacle. She quietly bore the misunderstanding of her sisters, constant bodily pain and the contempt of people who thought themselves pious and learned.
Yet it was to that simple, humble soul that Jesus revealed the deepest mystery of the Gospel: a Heart burning with love for all humanity.
He opened His garment and showed her His Heart, ringed with a crown of thorns, bleeding and blazing with love, and He lamented:
“Behold this Heart which has so loved men that it has spared nothing, even to exhausting and consuming itself to prove its love to them; yet in return I receive from most of them only ingratitude, coldness, irreverence and contempt in this Sacrament of Love!”
The nun entrusted with spreading devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus throughout the world was Margaret Mary Alacoque.
Chapter 1 of 5
A childhood in the pain of family abuse
Margaret Alacoque was born on July 22, 1647, in the village of L’Hautecour, in Burgundy, France. Her father, Claude Alacoque, was a wealthy and upright royal notary; her mother was Philiberte Lamyn. She was the fifth of seven children in a devout family. Even at four, little Margaret was strikingly drawn to holy things: of her own accord she promised God to live in purity, though she did not yet understand what consecrated virginity meant.
When Margaret was eight, her father died suddenly. Hard times fell on the family at once: the property and the running of the household passed into the hands of domineering, greedy relatives on her father’s side. Margaret and her mother lost all say and were treated cruelly, no better than servants in their own home. Every bite of food and every piece of clothing was rationed; even to go to church, Margaret had to ask permission, and she was often refused and humiliated.
Around the same time, the girl was struck by a crippling rheumatic illness that lasted nearly four years; she wasted away to skin and bone and could not walk on her own. At the end of her strength, she promised Our Lady that if she were healed she would give her whole life to God in one of Mary’s religious orders. As soon as she made the vow, Margaret recovered completely.
But as she grew into a young woman, her good looks, her lively nature and the family’s partly restored fortunes drew Margaret toward vanity: she came to love fine clothes and parties, and wealthy young men began asking for her hand. Her mother and relatives urged her to marry and secure the family’s future.
Margaret was torn in two: on one side, her duty to her suffering mother; on the other, her old promise to give herself to God. One night, as she came home from a ball, Jesus appeared to her, scourged and torn, and reproached her for her unfaithfulness. Overcome with grief, Margaret fell to her knees in tears of repentance and chose, once and for all, the consecrated life.
Chapter 2 of 5
The door of the Visitation convent at Paray-le-Monial
On June 20, 1671, after overcoming every obstacle her family put in her way, Margaret entered the Visitation convent in the small town of Paray-le-Monial. The town’s history goes back to a Benedictine monastery of the tenth century, and its twelfth-century Romanesque basilica still stands as one of the architectural treasures of France. She received the habit on August 25, 1671, and made her solemn profession on November 6, 1672, taking the religious name Sister Margaret Mary.
Religious life was no bed of roses. Because of her poor health and clumsiness at manual work, the novice mistress often corrected and criticized her. The sisters of the time, influenced by a rigid rationalism, looked on Margaret’s ecstatic prayer with suspicion, thinking her overwrought, deluded, or deceived by the devil. She was given the heaviest work, isolated, and bore humiliation in complete silence.
Chapter 3 of 5
The great revelations of the Sacred Heart
In the middle of those long nights of suspicion, Jesus chose this humble nun to reveal the greatest treasure of His love. From 1673 to 1675, Sister Margaret Mary received four great apparitions of the Sacred Heart of Jesus.
The first apparition took place on December 27, 1673, the feast of Saint John the Apostle: while she knelt praying before the Blessed Sacrament, Jesus appeared and let her rest her head on His breast, like the disciple John long ago. He showed her His Heart blazing with love and said:
“My divine Heart is so inflamed with love for men, and for you in particular, that it can no longer contain within itself the flames of its burning charity; it must spread them abroad through you... to save humanity from the brink of destruction!”
In the second and third apparitions, in 1674, Jesus appeared in glory, His five wounds shining like five suns. He made known His deep sorrow at people’s ingratitude and coldness toward the Blessed Sacrament.
He taught two practices that became the heart of the devotion:
- Communion of Reparation on First Fridays — faithfully going to confession and Communion on the first Friday of each month for nine consecutive months to make reparation for the offenses against the Sacred Heart;
- and the Holy Hour on Thursday nights — every Thursday evening, from eleven until midnight, prostrating oneself in prayer to share the terrible anguish of Jesus in the Garden of Olives long ago.
The greatest apparition took place in June 1675, within the octave of Corpus Christi: Jesus showed her His Heart and made a request that would change the Church’s calendar:
“I ask that the Friday after the octave of Corpus Christi be set apart as a special feast to honor My Heart, by receiving Communion in reparation and making public amends for the insults My Heart receives in the Most Blessed Sacrament!”
He joined to it the promise of abundant graces for all who honor His Heart and make it honored.
Chapter 4 of 5
The arrival of a holy spiritual director
When Sister Margaret Mary told her superiors about these visions, the suspicion and opposition only grew fiercer. Some theologians brought in to examine her decided she was hallucinating and advised the superior to give her more meat so that she would “dream” less. She was confined to her room, heartbroken.
Yet God did not abandon His faithful servant. At the beginning of 1675, He sent to Paray-le-Monial a young, learned and holy Jesuit priest: Saint Claude de la Colombière.
As soon as Sister Margaret Mary opened her heart to him in confession, Father Claude de la Colombière recognized the hand of the Holy Spirit. He defended her and cleared her name, and together with her he was the first to consecrate himself solemnly to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. From then on, the Jesuits took up the mission of spreading devotion to the Sacred Heart throughout the world.
After Father de la Colombière’s death, and with the arrival of a new and devout Mother Superior, the community at Paray-le-Monial gradually came to recognize Sister Margaret Mary’s holiness. She was made assistant superior and novice mistress. With gentleness and patience, she kindled the flame of devotion to the Sacred Heart in the very convent that had once rejected her, and from there it spread to other Visitation convents throughout France.
Chapter 5 of 5
A candle burning out in the flame of love
Margaret Mary’s whole life was one day after another consumed by love. She would often say:
“I can live only by love; without love, I would rather die!”
In the autumn of 1690, at forty-three, Sister Margaret Mary fell gravely ill. She knew that the day of meeting her Bridegroom had come. From her sickbed she calmly told the sisters weeping around her:
“I am about to enter my eternal rest... I have nothing left to desire but to be completely lost in the Heart of Jesus!”
On the evening of October 17, 1690, while receiving the Anointing of the Sick, Sister Margaret Mary Alacoque died peacefully, her eyes fixed on the crucifix, softly speaking the holy name
“Jesus...”
Pope Pius IX beatified her in 1864, and on May 13, 1920, Pope Benedict XV solemnly canonized Margaret Mary Alacoque. In 1856, Pope Pius IX officially established the Solemnity of the Sacred Heart of Jesus for the whole universal Church. The Church celebrates her on October 16 each year (formerly October 17). Her relics are still kept in the chapel of the Visitation convent at Paray-le-Monial, beneath a wax figure modeled on her features, and pilgrims from all over the world come to kneel and pray in the very place where the Lord appeared to her.
In Vietnam, the movement of reparation to the Sacred Heart, the consecration of families to the Sacred Heart and the practice of the nine First Fridays have nourished the faith of millions of Catholic families.
Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque leaves us a clear message: God is not a cold judge sitting on high counting people’s sins.
God is a Heart beating with love, a Heart wounded by our indifference, yet always open wide to welcome, embrace and forgive every sinner who comes home.
The end of the story
You have walked with Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque to the end of the story.
Three scenes make your heart tighten:

Her father died when she was eight, and his relatives seized the property and treated her and her mother no better than servants in their own home.

Jesus opened His garment and showed her His Heart encircled by thorns, bleeding, lamenting humanity’s ingratitude and coldness.

When she told of her visions, some theologians concluded she was hallucinating and advised giving her more meat so she would "dream" less.
Stay in silence
You notice something tender: a soul deprived of love as a child was the very one chosen to reveal to all humanity a Heart that never stops loving.
I can live only by love; without love, I would rather die!
Let us pray
Saint Margaret Mary,
as a child you were deprived of love in your own home. Then God chose you to show the world how much His Heart loves humanity.
Help me return that love with gratitude, especially each time I receive Communion and on every First Friday.
Pray for those who have known coldness in their families, that they may find warmth in the Heart of the Lord.
Amen.
Sources
- Feast dayAuthor’s edited profile
- Patron ofPatronages and symbols, version 1.1
- Often depicted withPatronages and symbols, version 1.1
- Reflectionsacrecoeur-paray.org
- Reflectioncausesanti.va
